Sea Friends honors Stephen Mili for 20 years supporting San Fernando Valley's LGBTQIA community

The Regular City Council meeting held on June 6, 2025, in Los Angeles focused on community support and safety for the LGBTQIA+ population, particularly in the San Fernando Valley. The meeting highlighted the contributions of Stephen Mili, the owner of Sea Friends, the first and only gay bar in Reseda, which has served as a vital community space since its opening in February 2005.

Council member Blumenfeld praised Mili for his dedication to creating an inclusive environment for queer individuals, noting that Sea Friends has been a safe haven for many in the Valley. Mili, who transitioned from a career in law to open the bar, recognized the need for a social space where LGBTQIA+ individuals could connect, especially during a time when social media and dating apps were not available.

The discussion also touched on the broader implications of community safety. Councilman Hirado expressed the need for tangible actions beyond symbolic gestures, emphasizing that safety should be a right for all, not just a privilege for a select few. He referenced the tragic case of Linda Becca Roman, an Ecuadorian trans immigrant who died at the hands of police, to underline the importance of ensuring that budget allocations reflect the values of protecting all community members.

The meeting concluded with a call to action for council members to consider how their decisions impact the safety and well-being of marginalized communities, reinforcing the message that pride extends beyond celebrations to encompass meaningful protections and support for all individuals.